The anti tech bonding moment.

I recently crossed paths with the most fascinating soul. For context, I’m one of those “weird” people who believe life was better without today’s overwhelming technology. I often joke that smoke signals and drums were the ultimate communication tools; simple, and far less intrusive. Naturally, most people in my life roll their eyes and think I’m being ridiculous.

But a few days ago, I had a conversation that felt like validation for my quirky perspective. It started with this radiant individual a beautiful soul in every sense of the word. She casually mentioned, “Val, you won’t believe this, but I just got my first mobile phone recently, right before traveling here to Kenya. I only got it because I needed to stay in touch with my family back in the US.”

You can imagine my face; complete disbelief. “Wait, so all this time, how were you keeping in touch with everyone?” I asked.

Her response floored me. “Do you know those old wire phones? The ones with the curly cords? That’s what I’ve always used.”

Right then and there, I knew I wanted to be her best friend.

Before you assume she’s just some out-of-touch person, let me blow your mind. She’s an 80-year-old mathematics professor, brilliant, witty, and brimming with life. Oh, and she adores real, tangible books. Not eBooks, not audiobooks, but actual, paper-smelling, page-turning books.

We spent a brief moment chatting about her life, her values, and her love for simplicity, and I was captivated. The chances of us meeting again are slim, but I’ll never forget her. She reminded me that sometimes, the simplest lives can be the most inspiring.